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Because, you see, the Fantasy of Being Thin is not just about becoming small enough to be perceived as more acceptable. It is about becoming an entirely different person – one with far more courage, confidence, and luck than the fat you has. It’s not just, “When I’m thin, I’ll look good in a bathing suit”; it’s “When I’m thin, I will be the kind of person who struts down the beach in a bikini, making men weep.” See also:

When I’m thin, I’ll have no trouble finding a partner/reinvigorating my marriage.

When I’m thin, I’ll have the job I’ve always wanted.

When I’m thin, I won’t be depressed anymore.

When I’m thin, I’ll be an adventurous world traveler instead of being freaked out by any country where I don’t speak the language and/or the plumbing is questionable.

When I’m thin, I’ll become really outdoorsy.

When I’m thin, I’ll be more extroverted and charismatic, and thus have more friends than I know what to do with.

The Fantasy of Being Thin (via thefifthhorseman)

(Source: marfmellow, via thefifthhorseman)

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